Answers for Dr. Olson's Quiz

1. d     Love and honesty need to be in balance. A lot of times we hide our true selves when entering a relationship. If it is going to be a lasting and trusting relationship we need to be secure in ourselves, not feel responsible for making the other happy, and be assertive (respectful and firm).

2. b     Common interests and values are more likely to add strength to the relationship. Validating your existence/identity is your responsibility.

3. c     Daily rituals of emotional connection are important for building friendship. [d.] is also right if the communication is respectful dialogue.

4. d     It is essential to understand the other's perspective and let them know you see why it is important to them, even if you disagree with each other.

5. e     Reference: John Gottman's book: The Relationship Cure

6. c

Back to Dr. Olson's quiz     |     Go to Dr. Jensen's quiz     |     Go to Relationship Cures page